That you earn less doesn't prevent you from being a good husband. That you are broke doesn't serve as a good excuse to become a bad husband.
The little you have, what have you been doing with it? Will you say for sure that you have used it to contribute selflessly for your family?
Even if you don't earn much or contribute much, what about other aspects of being a husband and a father? How committed have you been to these aspects? Being a husband and a father takes more than bringing everything financially.
Stop unnecessary picking of offences when it is necessary that you will help in performing a chore. Stop picking offences when it is necessary that you will take care of your kids. Stop transferring your aggression to your wife, she is not the cause of your problems. It is also not an excuse to drink to stupor. Again, cheating at this point is the most wicked thing you should never think of. Don't keep your time away from your family just because you think you are broke. Your family need your emotional and moral support.
Stop all those unnecessary excuses, support your wife the way you can, stop being selfish, and please, work hard to better your finances.
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