Marriage is not a certificate that guarantees a permanent relationship. That you are married doesn't always guarantee you already got that person for yourself for the rest of your life.
People believe they should only be committed to a relationship only when it is marriage. Some will say "every woman is single until she's married". This state of mind had led countless women to a particular kind of hell they still refer to as marriage.
Some ladies are so much interested in "whom to marry", they don't pay much interest in "the right person to marry". Once they are in a relationship, they don't give it their all, they don't give it their best shot, it's either they cheat with someone they think will marry them or they marry the person they are dating without knowing if he is the right person for them because they didn't give their all. How can you know he's the right person when you weren't committed? How will you know he is the right person when you weren't devoted to the relationship? How will you know he is the right person when he was just one of your boyfriends?
At the end, they get married. Yes they do, but the more the marriage lasts, the more they remain in pain.
So, today, I tell you this "any woman dating someone "is not single", she's also not married. Dedicate more of yourself for relationship. Getting married doesn't mean all is well with your love life. Many people breakup after marriage. Many remain in marriage but cry everyday. Work for your love. Cherish your love.
Posts
No comments:
Post a Comment