please Caesar, I need your advice. Hide my ID.
I have a very big problem with my boyfriend. The problem is that he smokes Indian hemp. He smokes so much that any few hours he doesn't smoke, he may fall sick. Meanwhile, we are practicing Christians. He had been told by different prophets that the only reason why he is not growing in life is because he smokes. I hate that habit a lot. I am finding it so hard to cope with it. I have given him several ultimatum to stop smoking, he keeps promising he will stop, but nothing is happening. I don't think he loves me genuinely because if he really does, he should have stopped smoking. We are currently planning to get married, but this smoking of a thing is making things very difficult for me.
My Response:
You can't say he should stop smoking to prove he loves you. In fact, you can't quantify how much he loves you with him stopping his smoking habit.
Smoking is a very strong addiction that even love most times find it difficult to stop. What am saying is that he can still love you very much but still find it difficult to stop smoking weed even after you keep complaining he should stop.
But there is something you mentioned here that is very important, you said they keep telling him that smoking is blocking his blessings. So, it is very necessary he stops smoking, but to stop smoking is not an easy something. First, he has to decide within himself that he wants to stop smoking. That's the first step. If he decides, he starts working on it, like staying far from those he smokes with and staying far from where he smokes. If he has money, he should go to rehab, it helps a lot. You have to make sure he stops smoking before you marry him since it is something you can't cope with, that is if he really wants stop it. Put all your efforts to make him stop. If he can't stop or don't want to stop, you might as well leave since you don't like it and since he keeps getting revelation that smoking is blocking his blessings
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