Why do people stop loving? Why do people fall out of love? Why is it that someone that was madly in love suddenly stopped loving? Someone asked these questions after reading my book titled 'Therapy of love'. I will be answering these questions
with five different reasons :
1. Lack of communication :
Most relationships start
going down when the pattern of communication starts going down . Lack of communication kills a relationship faster than a bullet.
2. Lies told before the beginning of the relationship:
Some people claim what they are not just to win someone's love. After the relationship begins, it is very natural for your partner to feel disappointed because you are totally opposite from what they
think you are.
3. Very bad behaviors that have lasted longer than they shouldn't:
If you have a very bad behavior thaty our partner keeps complaining of and you still
refuse to change, it can make your partner start looking elsewhere. This also includes poor hygiene and body odour.
4. Infatuation :
Some people who thought they were in love were just under the influence of infatuation. Once infatuation fades, the reality comes in.
Infatuation doesn't always lead to love.
5. When likeness is mistook for love :
relationship that you actually love someone else. It was never love, you just tried to make what was never there to look as if it was there. Sometimes, it may grow to love and sometimes it won't. When it doesn't, time
will come when being in that relationship will not worth it.
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