Stop waiting to be cared for

The main problem with most relationships is that women go into such relationships with the primary aim of 'being taken care of'.

The person you are in a relationship with has his own burden, it is okay to share in your burdens, it is okay to solve your problems for you, but are you in that relationship because you are looking for someone to solve your problems?

It is very irresponsible to be with someone just because you want to be cared for. It is not enough reason to be in a relationship. You will continue being a burden until the person you are a burden to discerns you are a burden to him.

Stop waiting to be cared for, care for someone! Care for someone because you love him!