Caesar's Circuit

Hello Caesar, please I need your advice on this :

I have this ex that left me some years back. Back then, I was so devastated that I kept begging to keep him in my life, but he was bent on leaving me. Whenever I asked him why he was leaving, he tells me he doesn't want his mother to discover he was dating me. I didn't get any sense in that though.

Now, I am in a relationship with someone that loves me so much. Our relationship has been moving fine until this my ex returned. He keeps begging to come back into my room. Now, he says the reason he left then was because he wanted time for himself. He keeps saying we are meant for each other. His disturbance is now getting hard for me to ignore, what should I do?


My Response :


My dear, this your ex is yet to tell you the actual reason for leaving you.

As it stands now, you got a man that loves and cares for you. This your ex is a distraction. One can't eat his cake and still want to have it. He got his chances, and he wasted them. Please, I think what you have to do now is to tell him explicitly that he can't have a spot in your heart again. He may keep coming if you continue to treat it with levity.

Thanks for sharing your story with us.