CAESAR'S CIRCUIT: A GOOD PERSON CAN MAKE A FAKE LOVER

Most good people make fake lovers. This is not because they are bad in nature or behavior, but because they block/limit their instincts, emotion, expressiveness, etc. 

You wanted to call him/her, you are dying to hear his/her voice, what stops you from calling? Perhaps you don't want to feel cheap. You so badly want to communicate with him/her, and when he/she trys to communicate with you, you try as much as possible to be cold, why? Because you want to always be at the receiving end. 
You were sick, he/she was always there; but when he/she became sick, you were nowhere to be found even though you so badly wanted to be there. Why? Because you want to be scarce and look special. You love him/her so badly, but keep trying to hide some of your love. Why? Because you want to be the boss of the relationship. 
You have all the time in the world to be with them, but you always pretend to be busy. Why? Because you want to feel special. 

Moderacy is very good. Overdoing something makes it your habit. Stop blocking your feelings, stop quenching your instincts and desires as long as they are not bad. The more you keep doing that, the less possible it is for your relationship to survive. You become a fake lover.