CAESAR'S CIRCUIT

Hello Caesar, I am writing in respect to one of your posts about cheating . When I read the post, I was touched, it was as if you were speaking to me because I have two boyfriends. I love the both of them very well, I just can't choose because they are all good to me and I really love them both equally . I guess my own case is different.

My response :

My dear, you can't love two people equally. That's a lie people use in justifying their blunder. You can't choose because you don't want to choose. You don't seem serious to love, to me. You will end up breaking their hearts . Now, you don't want to choose because you will be loosing something from the person you are going to drop. This is why I said you don't seem ready to me. You don't love because of what you get, a love that puts 'self' first all the time is a fake love. Tell yourself the truth. Perhaps, the one you love less or don't even love at all mighty be the one you receive more help from. Since they are both good, sit down, tell yourself the truth and pick the real one. To make it easier for you, ask yourself, what do you gain from each of them? How do you feel or react when you don't get those things? Who amongst them can you spend more on? Who amongst them do you feel more comfortable with?Who amongst them do you picture to be your husband? Who amongst them do you enjoy spending much time with and always look forward to spending much time with him? Who amongst them do you always remember even when they don't call, and who amongst the two that you always only remember when he calls? Answering most of these questions sincerely will help you choose rightly if you want to choose. It is irresponsible to date two at once, it speaks ill and cheap of you. I don't want to choose for you, but if you are having problem with knowing who to choose, write back to me. Thanks.